Prepare to be captivated by the story of Stiller & Meara, a documentary that will leave you with a unique perspective on the lives of Jerry Stiller and Anne Meara, a beloved husband-and-wife comedy duo.
A Heartfelt Tribute to Comedy Legends
At first glance, you might think this film is a typical celebration of its subjects, but get ready for a surprise! While it starts as a loving tribute, it soon transforms into a captivating narrative that goes beyond the usual.
The movie introduces us to Jerry and Anne, who rose to fame on 'The Ed Sullivan Show' in the 1960s and became a staple in the comedy scene. Their success was undeniable, but they weren't your typical superstars. Their stand-up sketches, a blend of affection and spiky humor, reflected their contrasting personalities, and their unique dynamic foreshadowed the era of 'Annie Hall'.
A Fresh Perspective on a Classic Duo
But here's where it gets controversial... Despite their fresh and trend-setting image, some might argue that Stiller and Meara were more likeable than groundbreaking. Their act had an edge, drawing from their own lives, but by the time they became TV regulars, there was a hint of corniness to their routine. The documentary showcases their iconic sketches, but once the laughter fades, you might wonder, is that all there is to know about them?
A Son's Perspective: Unveiling the Truth
And this is the part most people miss... Directed by their son, Ben Stiller, the film offers an intimate look at the couple's career, but it's more than just a family portrait. Shot after Jerry's passing in 2020, the documentary captures Ben and his sister, Amy, reminiscing in their childhood home, filled with memorabilia. It's a tribute to a happy family, but it also reveals the complexities of their parents' relationship.
Uncovering the Complexity of a Long-Lasting Marriage
Midway through, you might ask, what else is there to uncover? But that's when the documentary takes an unexpected turn, transforming into a captivating narrative of Jerry and Anne's life and art. Their marriage, while happy, was far from simple. They had their fair share of fights and clashes, but their backgrounds, more similar than we realize, kept them together. Could their success have torn them apart if it had been greater? Perhaps their fame and fortune would have fueled their tensions, leading to a different outcome.
The Power of Keeping It Real
In their act, Jerry, the perfectionist, often drove Anne crazy, but maybe this was their secret to sanity. By keeping their professional lives separate, they prioritized family, a heroic and touching choice. Their on-camera interviews reveal a serious side, where their disagreements became a form of therapy. Later, we learn they underwent couples' therapy, a testament to their commitment.
A Legacy of Love and Laughter
Ben Stiller completes the family story by including his own children and wife, reflecting on how his flaws echo his father's. Yet, his benign nature makes the family demons theme less impactful. In the end, it's a reminder that no one is perfect.
In the 1970s, Stiller and Meara pursued solo acting careers, with real success. Jerry's role as George Costanza's father on 'Seinfeld' was a perfect fit, showcasing his hidden sides. Anne, on the other hand, was all soul, a generous spirit who gave as good as she got.
'Stiller & Meara: Nothing Is Lost' is a must-watch, streaming on Apple TV+ starting October 24th. It's a celebration of a legendary couple, but it's also a reminder that nothing is truly lost, especially when it comes to the power of love and laughter.
